There Are No Specialness Fairies (or “Why you can live the life you want”)

Lately, I’ve been having the same conversation again and again. For some reason, some people who know me think that I’m special. That I have some kind of superpower, or luxury, or something, that has made it possible for me to live my life on my own terms. That somehow, the Specialness Fairies have decided […]

The Power of Decisions

So I’ve tried to write this blog post 3 times. And each time, it came out wrong. So I decided to make a video instead. I am sitting on the floor of my studio, wearing a blanket, with absolutely no make up on and I look like I’m 5 years old. My presentation probably leaves […]

Who do you make your decisions for?

The guilt monster has been back, snapping at my heels again about this nude show. I can’t seem to get the damned creature to leave me alone. No matter what choice I seem to make, I end up feeling guilty about something, or like I’ve disappointed someone. Ugh. Buggeration. Choice #1 – Throw myself in […]